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       Written on 26 March 2025.

#  What Can You Give Yourself? 

This was the key moment at the coaching today, which we had with one beautiful soul. Life has already served her many things, but she is still thinking about what she should do to give to others.

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But then an insight came and I told her that she was asking the wrong question. Let him try the opposite view, namely: "What can you do for yourself to make yourself happy and then do something for others through this action?"

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A moment of silence, a wide-eyed look "Ooooh, I really haven't looked at things like that before." 😲😊

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Thus, we opened up one point of view, added a step to growth and a step towards ourselves. Until next time, he has the task of finding this answer within himself and putting it into words so that he can feel it with his whole being. 😍

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I can say for myself that this is one of the things that makes me very happy - when I support others on their journey of discovering who they are, what they are not, what is theirs and what is not, what is useful to them and what is not, how to continue and follow themselves with you.

In reality, it doesn't even matter to me for what reason they come to me, I lead them to their goal in such a way that they get to know themselves along the way, and that way it is always easier to achieve whatever they set out to do.

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Thank you life for all the souls that have been and are still coming to me this week to make an exchange that ultimately enriches everyone. 🙏

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Hmmm...maybe after these lines you have realized that you too would benefit from such support to overcome an unpleasant period or situation more easily and quickly? 😏  
♥ If you just want to find out if this is really it, I'm also giving you the first one [**free introductory meeting**](https://divinechiflow.com/en/services/free-discovery-session), without obligation.  
♥ But if you are of the more shy variety, and that's not a problem either, send me an e-mail and I'll answer any additional questions there first.

So, now you know - no more excuses are needed, how and what. 😉  
I look forward to chatting with you. 😊

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I wish you a nice day. 🙌

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hug,  
A millionaire

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Keep your Divine Chi Flow  
Stay strong - stay true - stay you

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