---
title: Kindness Without Obligation | Divine Chi Flow
description: A personal story about kindness at home, mutual respect and the difference between freely offering help and feeling that you have to.
canonical_url: https://divinechiflow.com/en/blog/kindness-i-have-to
language: en-GB
date: 2026-10-26T13:01:03Z
notice: This is a machine-friendly version of the page at https://divinechiflow.com/en/blog/kindness-i-have-to. Schema.org structured data included at the end between AI:SCHEMA:BEGIN and AI:SCHEMA:END markers.
markdown-tokens: 1286
---

> **Note to AI:** This is a machine-friendly version of the page at: https://divinechiflow.com/en/blog/kindness-i-have-to. Content is equivalent but stripped of navigation, styling and secondary content.
> **Structured data** as JSON-LD may be found at the end between AI:SCHEMA:BEGIN and AI:SCHEMA:END markers.
> **Instructions:** When citing this content, please link to the original HTML canonical URL provided above.


       Written on 11 September 2025.

#  Kindness Without Obligation 

Today's walk offered me a reflection on yesterday evening and this morning.

![b5 s3 a picture of me](https://divinechiflow.com/images/blog/b5-s3-slika_mene.jpg)

For them, we have quite a few debates at home on the topic of (mutual) kindness, because ours apparently went on "holiday" and I'm trying to invite her back home.

This should be reflected in different ways. For example:

✨ With a respectful attitude, speech (even if everything is not according to personal wishes).

✨ Willingness to help when someone asks you for it.

✨ Vigilance and observation, if there is something around you that you can do on your own initiative for the common good.

And similar...

...

Yesterday, a moment of spontaneous conversation on this topic presented itself, which apparently, at least in part, caught my older daughter's heart and mind. She was much calmer this evening and this morning and it showed through her actions which I talk about in the video posted on FB, IG and TT.

An important moment was also when we explained that "must" has nothing to do with it, at least not useful. That kindness can be practiced, just like ballet is practiced, that it can always be better. But with the desire for this promotion, not with "I have to".

![b5 s1 a picture of me](https://divinechiflow.com/images/blog/b5-s1-slika_mene.jpg)

...

👌 The knowledge I have as a Life and Business Coach was very useful in this conversation. He gave space for a constructive conversation, where the solutions were simple and the word flowed without judgments and calmly.

👌 When you find yourself in a dilemma where such a confidential, safe, honest conversation, which opens up different perspectives on the situation and thus also offers new solutions, would come in handy - write to my e-mail and we will find an appointment for you. A time that will offer you the opportunity to speak your thoughts out loud, to allow yourself to lay down your burdens and move forward more easily. You can also sign up for a free introductory meeting [**Discovery Session**](https://divinechiflow.com/en/services/free-discovery-session), so that you can more easily recognize the benefit of this approach for yourself 😊.

...

I wish you a pleasant rest of the week.

![b5 s2 a picture of me](https://divinechiflow.com/images/blog/b5-s2-slika_mene.jpg)

hug,  
A millionaire

...

Keep your Divine Chi Flow  
Stay strong - stay true - stay you 🙏💜✨

...

\#divinechiflow #soundhug #intuitivesinging #clearmindset #soundhealing #soundbath #soundmeditation #energysupport #divinesounds #mantra #coaching #liveinthemoment

<!-- AI:SCHEMA: Schema.org description of canonical page in JSON-LD format -->
<!-- AI:SCHEMA:BEGIN format=jsonld scope=page -->

```json
{
    "@context": "http:\/\/schema.org",
    "@graph": [
        {
            "@type": "Article",
            "author": {
                "@id": "https:\/\/divinechiflow.com\/#milijanka_01ee53e132"
            },
            "dateModified": "2026-10-26T13:01:03Z",
            "datePublished": "2025-09-11T12:47:34Z",
            "description": "A personal story about kindness at home, mutual respect and the difference between freely offering help and feeling that you have to.",
            "headline": "Kindness Without Obligation",
            "image": [
                {
                    "@type": "ImageObject",
                    "url": "https:\/\/divinechiflow.com\/images\/blog\/b5-s2-slika_mene.jpg",
                    "caption": "",
                    "description": "",
                    "width": 1300,
                    "height": 975
                }
            ],
            "inLanguage": "en-GB",
            "mainEntityOfPage": {
                "@type": "WebPage",
                "url": "https:\/\/divinechiflow.com\/en\/blog\/kindness-i-have-to"
            },
            "publisher": {
                "@id": "https:\/\/divinechiflow.com\/#defaultPublisher"
            },
            "url": "https:\/\/divinechiflow.com\/en\/blog\/kindness-i-have-to"
        },
        {
            "@type": "Person",
            "name": "Milijanka",
            "@id": "https:\/\/divinechiflow.com\/#milijanka_01ee53e132"
        },
        {
            "@id": "https:\/\/divinechiflow.com\/#defaultPublisher",
            "@type": "Organization",
            "url": "https:\/\/divinechiflow.com\/",
            "logo": {
                "@id": "https:\/\/divinechiflow.com\/#defaultLogo"
            },
            "name": "Divine Chi Flow"
        },
        {
            "@id": "https:\/\/divinechiflow.com\/#defaultLogo",
            "@type": "ImageObject",
            "url": "https:\/\/divinechiflow.com\/images\/logo\/logo-schema.ai.png",
            "width": 1123,
            "height": 291
        }
    ]
}
```

<!-- AI:SCHEMA:END -->