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       Written on 10 October 2025.

#  Helping Children Find Their Own Agency 

The video I posted on social media is the true story of our morning today. (You can view it at [IG](https://www.instagram.com/p/DPnpPOsiLRi/), [FB](https://www.facebook.com/reel/1328908485540390) or [TT](https://www.tiktok.com/@divinechiflow/video/7559495226927172886).)

Deep gratitude that the field of conversation was open for such a topic and so many insights. 🙏

Among other things, the realization of how essential it would be to teach children such skills and depth on a daily level in various environments (sometimes more than filling their heads with information that is available everywhere today).

So, when unpleasant situations arise, with us, e.g. at school, and a feeling of helplessness arises because the person who is causing trouble does not stop with such behavior, the teacher reacts ineffectively, because the situation often repeats itself...what now?

I explained to her that this is an excellent situation, where she can create an opportunity out of a problem for her to conquer something new, which will give her strength in the future, how to face such situations and maintain her strength through kindness to herself and others and communication that does not attack or complain. ✨

The video was shot from the moment of inspiration, right after it happened, so it's really authentic and whole. Yes, it takes 10 minutes. If it is important to you how your (inner) child faces uncomfortable situations in life in mutual relationships, I believe and trust that these 10 minutes will be a good job for you. 🤗

For me, it will be very nice to read your impressions and opinions there, maybe someone will share their experience if they have already tried something like this... the conversation field is open and I am happy to receive your thoughts. 💜

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Let me also say thank you to two wonderful souls who made this skill even more aware and deepened during the weekend retreat on communication with oneself and with others. They activated this knowledge of mine so that I was able to use it at home today and it was wonderful. Thank you Nina and Nives. 🙏😊

I can also thank Darja from Mayarula because she is part of our everyday life with magical sprays that support us even on an unconscious level. ✨🫶

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Have a weekend full of loving communication with yourself and others 🥰.

hug,  
A millionaire

...

Keep your Divine Chi Flow ☯🦋💫  
Stay strong - stay true - stay you 🙏💜✨

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